Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Who am I....


Who am I ............a question I may not be able to answer at full length. I can definitely define how I see myself as.



I see myself as a selfish fool.






This defines me........


Selfish: Selfishness is the ultimate truth. If you are selfish and you ensure you achieve your goal with.......honesty, integrity, truthfulness........you bound to create much bigger positive impact. If you lead such a positive life by being true to yourself and to no one. I believe in this. I refer to story of Rama.......Indian epic......Major part of story of Rama is about his adventure to bring his wife back. He achieved it with highest level of integrity and honesty.....resulted in bigger welfare of human society.


Fool: I take risks.Life challenges me and surprises me at every step....it poses several option. I chose one. I

believe I take risk at this very moment when I chose one with with immense sense of astonishment and surprise. The process of making this choice is foolish. it is big risk on whatever happens after that moment.SO I have to be a fool to do it. I never let life just pass by me. TO ensure this......I have to make choices every moment in life.

My Life is about being.........


I spent same time last month during my NLP session to define (....and affirm..) what is my life is about. Several factors popped up almost a list of 20+ items. When i re looked at the list with perspective and comparison........very truth emerged which made me feel..........this is it.


I define it as "My Life is about being honest, success full, keeping my family happy and above all being MYSELF."


Honest: my Behaviour is about being honest with myself ( so that at the end of the day I get good sleep). This ensures i provide my opinion honestly based on my understanding and without any bias. This get exhibited both in my work life and personal life.


Successful: I thrive to be successful at very personal level. I also believe and keep very close to being honest. For me both honesty and urge to succeed can not be separated. If a success can not be achieved by showing honesty ........... than it is not worth the success. Simple reason you will not be able to enjoy and sustain at personal level.


Keeping my family happy: very personal and very close.


above all being MYSELF: I never want to move out of being MYSELF. It is me and me alone. I am very selfish.